Considering Infertility Treatments? It May Be A Spiritual Thing…

Are you considering undergoing infertility treatments?

Or maybe you have unexplained infertility where there is no medical explanation for your inability to conceive?

Infertility Affirmation's Chart by Holly ScalmaniniWhether you are dealing with primary infertility, secondary infertility, or unexplained infertility, getting a psychic health reading may give you insight into the deeper layers that may be factors in your inability to conceive.

As a Licensed Acupuncturist and practitioner of Chinese Medicine, infertility was one of the most common things I treated over the years. I worked with many women who got pregnant with my help combined with infertility treatments like IVF and IUI.

I am happy to say that I went to many baby showers during my career.

However, it was those infertile women who were one of the major things that pushed me towards working as a certified medical medium and  intuitive rather than an acupuncturist. Many times, I would be administering needles to Spleen 4 and Pericardium 6 on someone with infertility, but, while doing so, my intuitive mind would be perceiving that there was much more to the story than just FSH levels and blood deficiency.

What I, as a  Certified Medical Medium  See During an Infertility Reading

When I do a psychic reading around infertility, I see things in my mind’s eye (clairvoyance), I hear things in my mind’s ear (clairaudience), I feel things through my body (clairsentience) and sometimes I just have a knowing (claircognizance).

I often see how many children you will have. I am often able to feel some of the personality traits of your soon-to-be baby and some of the lessons you will learn from each other as you navigate life together.

Some soul babies feel close like they are right next to their moms. And some feel far away. They feel like they are still in a place of finishing old business or working things out on the other side. There is an aspect of divine timing that I see when I am looking at someone with infertility.

With modern technology, we are so used to controlling everything. We take for granted that every soul has its own timing and rhythm. Here are some of the common scenarios that I see when divine timing plays a part in infertility:

Considering infertility treatments due to unexplained infertilty? A medical medium can provide valuable insights!1.The soul is feeling fear and resistance when facing it’s next life. As we all know, earth school can be challenging and difficult. I would imagine that most of us would not wish the suffering we have endured in life onto anyone else. Some souls have had past lives that have been difficult and painful. This can create resistance when facing a new life full of challenges. I have seen souls hesitate for a while. And I have seen souls back out completely. This is one of reasons a miscarriage can happen.

2.The soul is delayed due to unfinished business on the other side. b.As souls, we are learning and growing. Like school here on earth, I have seen systems in place on the other side that allow us to study and learn. Completing these programs of learning on the other side is important and it can take some souls longer than others to do this. I have also seen souls that take extra time to  help another soul or group of souls on the other side. Sometimes I see it as karmic debt that needs to be paid before a soul can incarnate again. All of these scenarios can create time delays in the conception process.

3.There are issues with mom and dad. In many readings, I see that the time is not right for mom and/or dad. I have seen women who have a deep fear of becoming a mother which often has an underlying note of perfectionism. I have seen men who aren’t ready for the responsibility of being a dad. I have seen situations where the soul baby wants to wait until a certain life event like a move or job change has taken place before they come in.

Everyone person and situation is different.

The above examples are just some of the situations that have shown themselves when I am doing an infertility reading from a medical medium’s point of view. For many of the women I read for, I see that staying the course of infertility treatments, acupuncture, and/or Chinese herbal medicine is helpful even if there are divine timing issues at play.

For others, I see that the infertility treatments may be wearing them down and it may be beneficial to take a break for a while.

One thing I see very often is that most women have so much more time than they think they do. It’s okay to take a break for a while, have fun, enjoy life and reassess at some point in the future.

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Being Infertile: An Emotional Roller Coaster

As a Certified Medical Intuitive, I see your body and its energy on all four levels: physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual.

When I do an intuitive reading, I am looking at emotions and life situations that contribute to current health issues. Being infertile can feel like an emotional roller coaster. Anxiety and worry are two common emotions I see in women who are trying to conceive.

Women who are going through the monthly cycle of infertility treatments and pregnancy tests tend to put lots of pressure on themselves. It’s a difficult balance to want something so badly and then have to let go of the outcome. Many women feel they are on a roller coaster of emotion and they are in it alone.

Finding ways to bring equanimity to the mind and emotions can be very beneficial. Yoga and meditation can be ways to do this. There are also apps for guided meditation and relaxation which can relax your body putting your nervous system into the parasympathetic or relaxed state.

From a Chinese medicine point of view, there is an intimate relationship between the heart and the uterus. When the heart is happy and healthy, so is the uterus.

In Traditional Chinese Medicine, each of the major organs has an emotion attributed to it. The emotion of the heart is joy. When we feel joy and happiness in everyday life, our heart functions well. One of the common recommendations I give in an infertility reading is to have fun, let go, and create life circumstances which help you to feel free. This can be difficult in our over-worked and over-scheduled lives, but even something small like taking a moment to listen to the birds or taking a 5 minute walk outside in the middle of your work day can be powerful ways for you to open up and feel happy.

Being Infertile: Ways To Relax and Work With It

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Finding ways to relax and find a sense of self-acceptance can be like medicine for those working with infertility. Yoga, mindfulness meditation, Qi Gong, Tai Ji, and receiving acupuncture treatments can all be ways to breathe deeply, reset your nervous system, and remind our bodies how to relax. One way to work with infertility is to initiate your own psychic sense and connect with the soul of your unborn baby.

I have seen that this brings a sense of comfort and a way of checking in with your soon-to-be child. This connection can bring clarity to you about your child’s divine timing and needs. It can also bring insight to you as a parent and what your body, mind, emotions, and soul are needing at this time.

Walter Makichen’s book Spirit Babies: How to Communicate with the Child You’re Meant to Have  has been a wonderful resource for many who are willing to look at infertility from the soul perspective.

Another way of working with infertility is affirmations. If you feel like you are on an emotional roller coaster, affirmations can be a way to work with relaxing your mind.

Have you heard enough because you LOVE Holly as much as we do and you could really use some of her exceptional insights?
If so, you may want to take advantage of her FIRST TIMER Offer of $50 off a 60 minute infertility reading with Holly.
Click here to receive a COUPON CODE for this LIMITED TIME OFFER 

(BONUS: You will also receive her Infertility Affirmations Chart) 

Infertility Affirmations Chart
& $50 off Code for 1st Time Infertility Readings

Get instant access to Holly's Infertility Affirmations Chart

As a way of offering my support to you, I am offering a free pdf download of my INFERTILITY AFFIRMATIONS CHART.

This chart can be used as a guided meditation or as a way to become more clear on the thought forms and emotions that run amok in our minds. When we are more clear and relaxed with those thought forms and emotions, they lose their power and we feel like we can detach from them giving us a fresh perspective and a sense of openness to the present moment.

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Certified Medical Intuitive Healer Holly ScalmaniniHolly Scalmanini L.Ac. and certified medical intuitive healer  is NOW based near Pismo Beach, CA & San Luis Obispo, CA. She held a longstanding office in  Lakewood, Colorado, near Denver and Boulder CO and performs medical intuitive readings for clients in person and around the nation via phone and Skype. For more information about her services or to schedule a medical intuitive reading or intuitive healing please visit her Premier Mind Body Spirit Network business directory listing .

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About the Author:

Holly Scalmanini
Holly is a Certified Medical Intuitive and psychic medium from The Aspen Program for Psychic Development. She has studied with several noted psychics and healers including Karen Fox, Julie Cobb, and Nicole Sacchitella. Holly began her career in the healing arts in 1994. Over the years when working with people, she would perceive life situations, emotional imbalances and spiritual components that contributed to the pain and illness the client was experiencing. Holly is a Licensed Acupuncturist with a Master of Science in Oriental Medicine from Southwest Acupuncture College. She is certified in Reiki II and a board certified Chinese herbalist. Holly’s has moved to the San Luis Obispo, CA & Pismo Beach, CA area of California. Her longstanding former office was located in Lakewood, CO. She provides her medical intuitive readings and energy healing services remotely via phone, Skype and video conference as well as in person to the communities in and around the Denver Colorado area including Littleton, Wheatridge, Golden, Morrison, Evergreen and Boulder, CO


  1. Kate April 20, 2017 at 4:14 pm - Reply

    Great article! I had to wait, dealing with years of infertility. The stars aligned and he’s 11 month old today! Patience, consciousness, and a reading with Holly can get you through!

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